Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ever had TOO many women?

Metaphysical

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I know this might sound retarded to most guys here, but to the real players out there: Have you ever had TOO many women? How do you get rid of them?

I am currently a student in university and have 2 girlfriends and 2 fuck buddies. I just don't have time for this shit anymore. It's taking over my life, keeping me busy as hell. Any of you guys ever dumped all of them at once? What happened?

What makes matters worse is that everywhere I go there are hundreds of new girls who are flirting and smiling at me and wanting to fuck. It's so fucking tempting and hard to resist.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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for me, i've had this problem only with ugly chicks.
they fvcking follow me around and makes it really awkward.
i wish i was in ur position with really hot chicks.
 

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My coworker is a real player. He has some cute ones and some not so cute ones...but he has about 8 total. hes macking them hoes and getting money out of em. He's always complaining about scheduling and being tired and where he can and can't go because he doesn't want to be seen. must be nice to have those problems right?
 

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Chit!!

I'm glad I dont have that problem. It would get in the way of building my empire.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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For me the main problem is walking; they really dig their nails in tight around my legs and it makes them hard to shake off....

...but seriously just stop answering the phone and calling them if you are not interested or are too busy. Simple as.
 

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Metaphysical said:
I know this might sound retarded to most guys here, but to the real players out there: Have you ever had TOO many women? How do you get rid of them?

I am currently a student in university and have 2 girlfriends and 2 fuck buddies. I just don't have time for this shit anymore. It's taking over my life, keeping me busy as hell. Any of you guys ever dumped all of them at once? What happened?

What makes matters worse is that everywhere I go there are hundreds of new girls who are flirting and smiling at me and wanting to fuck. It's so fucking tempting and hard to resist.
I have a similar problem with my bank. I have too much money in my account and they want to give some back.
 

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AlanB said:
For me the main problem is walking; they really dig their nails in tight around my legs and it makes them hard to shake off....

...but seriously just stop answering the phone and calling them if you are not interested or are too busy. Simple as.
Yeh women do that with no problem...
 

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krazyboy99 said:
in all honesty, bro, this is weak. if you wanna brag then be a man about it and just brag, don't try to disguise it with this pvssy azz sh1t as if you're actually upset about it. its clear to everybody what you're trying do to here
At least one other person gets what I mean about boasting.

Hey....while we're on the topic, I have a 10 inch penis, and its REALLY inconvenient when I wanna wear Speedos, which is about once every five years, any advice?

Not boasting, honest. :rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A lot of guys say they want a lot of pussy, but it's over-rated. When you are boning a new girl every day, after a week the excitement is gone.

I like one of the girls and I'm probably going to keep her around and slowly break contact with the rest, although it's hard when you are being offered hot young teenage pussy on a plate.
 

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Metaphysical said:
I know this might sound retarded to most guys here, but to the real players out there: Have you ever had TOO many women? How do you get rid of them?

I am currently a student in university and have 2 girlfriends and 2 fuck buddies. I just don't have time for this shit anymore. It's taking over my life, keeping me busy as hell. Any of you guys ever dumped all of them at once? What happened?

What makes matters worse is that everywhere I go there are hundreds of new girls who are flirting and smiling at me and wanting to fuck. It's so fucking tempting and hard to resist.
Who cares about women... they're just a side show. Drop 3 of them and hang out with the hot one a few times a week.
 

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Metaphysical said:
A lot of guys say they want a lot of pussy, but it's over-rated. When you are boning a new girl every day, after a week the excitement is gone.

I like one of the girls and I'm probably going to keep her around and slowly break contact with the rest, although it's hard when you are being offered hot young teenage pussy on a plate.
Thought you had 4 girls? Now its a new one every day.

Yet another sosuave KJ...join the back of the queue mate.
 

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Are the girlfriends from the same town? I would say drop 2 out of the four depending on the circumstances and then enjoy other girls when you can. easier said then done but good luck. keep your priorities straight.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Are the girlfriends from the same town? I would say drop 2 out of the four depending on the circumstances and then enjoy other girls when you can. easier said then done but good luck. keep your priorities straight.
actually... one is in every different part of the city hahaha..

and L777, I am screwing a different girl every day... as in, today I fvcked Tanya, tomorrow Lisa, Thursday i will fvck Maria... etc, etc. after that i repeat.
 

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dating two girls is fine but 3 or more???? that is just insane unless you like the feeling of looking over your back feeling watched, and the feeling of impending doom if one happens to catch you. If they live in different towns it is workable.
 

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L777 do you come here just to complain about all the guys who are gettin action and you aren't? If you don't have anything positive to add, then plz don't say anything.

Same thing with the rest of you haters. This is a real problem for DJ's when you get experienced. Maybe if you listened to the OP you could learn something.

Meta, its all about you, and your priorities. If you don't have time, then drop 1 or 2 of the ones that interest you the least. Personally I'd keep one or two, and drop the others and start looking for new more appealing ones.

Although dropping all 4 wouldn't be the end of the world.
 

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Metaphysical said:
actually... one is in every different part of the city hahaha..

and L777, I am screwing a different girl every day... as in, today I fvcked Tanya, tomorrow Lisa, Thursday i will fvck Maria... etc, etc. after that i repeat.
Well its hardly a new girl every day is it.

Come on man show some class.....boasting is gay beyond belief
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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