"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Metaphysical

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I know this might sound retarded to most guys here, but to the real players out there: Have you ever had TOO many women? How do you get rid of them?

I am currently a student in university and have 2 girlfriends and 2 fuck buddies. I just don't have time for this shit anymore. It's taking over my life, keeping me busy as hell. Any of you guys ever dumped all of them at once? What happened?

What makes matters worse is that everywhere I go there are hundreds of new girls who are flirting and smiling at me and wanting to fuck. It's so fucking tempting and hard to resist.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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for me, i've had this problem only with ugly chicks.
they fvcking follow me around and makes it really awkward.
i wish i was in ur position with really hot chicks.
 

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My coworker is a real player. He has some cute ones and some not so cute ones...but he has about 8 total. hes macking them hoes and getting money out of em. He's always complaining about scheduling and being tired and where he can and can't go because he doesn't want to be seen. must be nice to have those problems right?
 

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Chit!!

I'm glad I dont have that problem. It would get in the way of building my empire.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For me the main problem is walking; they really dig their nails in tight around my legs and it makes them hard to shake off....

...but seriously just stop answering the phone and calling them if you are not interested or are too busy. Simple as.
 

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Metaphysical said:
I know this might sound retarded to most guys here, but to the real players out there: Have you ever had TOO many women? How do you get rid of them?

I am currently a student in university and have 2 girlfriends and 2 fuck buddies. I just don't have time for this shit anymore. It's taking over my life, keeping me busy as hell. Any of you guys ever dumped all of them at once? What happened?

What makes matters worse is that everywhere I go there are hundreds of new girls who are flirting and smiling at me and wanting to fuck. It's so fucking tempting and hard to resist.
I have a similar problem with my bank. I have too much money in my account and they want to give some back.
 

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AlanB said:
For me the main problem is walking; they really dig their nails in tight around my legs and it makes them hard to shake off....

...but seriously just stop answering the phone and calling them if you are not interested or are too busy. Simple as.
Yeh women do that with no problem...
 

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krazyboy99 said:
in all honesty, bro, this is weak. if you wanna brag then be a man about it and just brag, don't try to disguise it with this pvssy azz sh1t as if you're actually upset about it. its clear to everybody what you're trying do to here
At least one other person gets what I mean about boasting.

Hey....while we're on the topic, I have a 10 inch penis, and its REALLY inconvenient when I wanna wear Speedos, which is about once every five years, any advice?

Not boasting, honest. :rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A lot of guys say they want a lot of pussy, but it's over-rated. When you are boning a new girl every day, after a week the excitement is gone.

I like one of the girls and I'm probably going to keep her around and slowly break contact with the rest, although it's hard when you are being offered hot young teenage pussy on a plate.
 

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Metaphysical said:
I know this might sound retarded to most guys here, but to the real players out there: Have you ever had TOO many women? How do you get rid of them?

I am currently a student in university and have 2 girlfriends and 2 fuck buddies. I just don't have time for this shit anymore. It's taking over my life, keeping me busy as hell. Any of you guys ever dumped all of them at once? What happened?

What makes matters worse is that everywhere I go there are hundreds of new girls who are flirting and smiling at me and wanting to fuck. It's so fucking tempting and hard to resist.
Who cares about women... they're just a side show. Drop 3 of them and hang out with the hot one a few times a week.
 

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Metaphysical said:
A lot of guys say they want a lot of pussy, but it's over-rated. When you are boning a new girl every day, after a week the excitement is gone.

I like one of the girls and I'm probably going to keep her around and slowly break contact with the rest, although it's hard when you are being offered hot young teenage pussy on a plate.
Thought you had 4 girls? Now its a new one every day.

Yet another sosuave KJ...join the back of the queue mate.
 

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Are the girlfriends from the same town? I would say drop 2 out of the four depending on the circumstances and then enjoy other girls when you can. easier said then done but good luck. keep your priorities straight.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are the girlfriends from the same town? I would say drop 2 out of the four depending on the circumstances and then enjoy other girls when you can. easier said then done but good luck. keep your priorities straight.
actually... one is in every different part of the city hahaha..

and L777, I am screwing a different girl every day... as in, today I fvcked Tanya, tomorrow Lisa, Thursday i will fvck Maria... etc, etc. after that i repeat.
 

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dating two girls is fine but 3 or more???? that is just insane unless you like the feeling of looking over your back feeling watched, and the feeling of impending doom if one happens to catch you. If they live in different towns it is workable.
 

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L777 do you come here just to complain about all the guys who are gettin action and you aren't? If you don't have anything positive to add, then plz don't say anything.

Same thing with the rest of you haters. This is a real problem for DJ's when you get experienced. Maybe if you listened to the OP you could learn something.

Meta, its all about you, and your priorities. If you don't have time, then drop 1 or 2 of the ones that interest you the least. Personally I'd keep one or two, and drop the others and start looking for new more appealing ones.

Although dropping all 4 wouldn't be the end of the world.
 

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Metaphysical said:
actually... one is in every different part of the city hahaha..

and L777, I am screwing a different girl every day... as in, today I fvcked Tanya, tomorrow Lisa, Thursday i will fvck Maria... etc, etc. after that i repeat.
Well its hardly a new girl every day is it.

Come on man show some class.....boasting is gay beyond belief
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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