"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ever Had This Happen?

Deadly_Ripped

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Met this girl through my roommate (HB8).
He was into her.
She wasn't into him.
The only time I spent with her while my roommate was pursuing her were two group happenings at our apartment.
2 months later, after he gave up, I went to a party at her place and we hooked up (no sex).
I saw her the following weekend with a group of people and she was suddenly different...

When I first met her, she was: confident, independent, friendly, outgoing, great at conversation.

This past time we saw each other she was: nervous, insecure, extremely concerned about how I perceived everything she was saying, hovering a little. edit: it was like she couldn't just relax around me and be the same vibrant attractive person that she was when I first met her. It was like her confidence was completely drained.

She even told her best friend about me and her best friend was there and was asking me questions... probing me verbally.

I can't say that I've ever seen a girl do a 180 degree turn during only a single week. If anyone cares to hear the techniques that I used on her that I picked up from this website, I could post them (simple ones mostly), but I'm just wondering how often this experience is shared.

Do chicks normally respond to successful game this way?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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penkitten

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she was different because she was now interested in someone (you) and became extremely self aware of it and wore all of her emotions on her sleeves.
she just sounds young and inexperienced to me, how old is she?
 

The Comeback Kid

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penkitten said:
she was different because she was now interested in someone (you) and became extremely self aware of it and wore all of her emotions on her sleeves.
I agree. She's interested in you, congrats! :up: If you're interested in her too, ask her out the next chance you get, things look good. Nice going.
 

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She's 23 and I'm 24. She's got a college degree, a SMOKIN body (ok face), and she's fun to be around.

Apparently she's not stupid either because she did better than me on the verbal part of her GREs.

She was just in a 2 yr relationship (live-in until it ended) and she's been single for about 4 months. That's not very much time. She never talks about her ex though. IDK about her past before that, so I'm not sure exactly how much experience she's got. I do know that she was fooling around with a few of the guys I've met prior to her finding me.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
If anyone cares to hear the techniques that I used on her that I picked up from this website, I could post them (simple ones mostly)
I would like to hear what you did, I'm always interested in success.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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