"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ever Had This Happen?

Deadly_Ripped

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Met this girl through my roommate (HB8).
He was into her.
She wasn't into him.
The only time I spent with her while my roommate was pursuing her were two group happenings at our apartment.
2 months later, after he gave up, I went to a party at her place and we hooked up (no sex).
I saw her the following weekend with a group of people and she was suddenly different...

When I first met her, she was: confident, independent, friendly, outgoing, great at conversation.

This past time we saw each other she was: nervous, insecure, extremely concerned about how I perceived everything she was saying, hovering a little. edit: it was like she couldn't just relax around me and be the same vibrant attractive person that she was when I first met her. It was like her confidence was completely drained.

She even told her best friend about me and her best friend was there and was asking me questions... probing me verbally.

I can't say that I've ever seen a girl do a 180 degree turn during only a single week. If anyone cares to hear the techniques that I used on her that I picked up from this website, I could post them (simple ones mostly), but I'm just wondering how often this experience is shared.

Do chicks normally respond to successful game this way?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she was different because she was now interested in someone (you) and became extremely self aware of it and wore all of her emotions on her sleeves.
she just sounds young and inexperienced to me, how old is she?
 

The Comeback Kid

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penkitten said:
she was different because she was now interested in someone (you) and became extremely self aware of it and wore all of her emotions on her sleeves.
I agree. She's interested in you, congrats! :up: If you're interested in her too, ask her out the next chance you get, things look good. Nice going.
 

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She's 23 and I'm 24. She's got a college degree, a SMOKIN body (ok face), and she's fun to be around.

Apparently she's not stupid either because she did better than me on the verbal part of her GREs.

She was just in a 2 yr relationship (live-in until it ended) and she's been single for about 4 months. That's not very much time. She never talks about her ex though. IDK about her past before that, so I'm not sure exactly how much experience she's got. I do know that she was fooling around with a few of the guys I've met prior to her finding me.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
If anyone cares to hear the techniques that I used on her that I picked up from this website, I could post them (simple ones mostly)
I would like to hear what you did, I'm always interested in success.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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