"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ever Had This Happen?

Deadly_Ripped

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Met this girl through my roommate (HB8).
He was into her.
She wasn't into him.
The only time I spent with her while my roommate was pursuing her were two group happenings at our apartment.
2 months later, after he gave up, I went to a party at her place and we hooked up (no sex).
I saw her the following weekend with a group of people and she was suddenly different...

When I first met her, she was: confident, independent, friendly, outgoing, great at conversation.

This past time we saw each other she was: nervous, insecure, extremely concerned about how I perceived everything she was saying, hovering a little. edit: it was like she couldn't just relax around me and be the same vibrant attractive person that she was when I first met her. It was like her confidence was completely drained.

She even told her best friend about me and her best friend was there and was asking me questions... probing me verbally.

I can't say that I've ever seen a girl do a 180 degree turn during only a single week. If anyone cares to hear the techniques that I used on her that I picked up from this website, I could post them (simple ones mostly), but I'm just wondering how often this experience is shared.

Do chicks normally respond to successful game this way?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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penkitten

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she was different because she was now interested in someone (you) and became extremely self aware of it and wore all of her emotions on her sleeves.
she just sounds young and inexperienced to me, how old is she?
 

The Comeback Kid

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penkitten said:
she was different because she was now interested in someone (you) and became extremely self aware of it and wore all of her emotions on her sleeves.
I agree. She's interested in you, congrats! :up: If you're interested in her too, ask her out the next chance you get, things look good. Nice going.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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She's 23 and I'm 24. She's got a college degree, a SMOKIN body (ok face), and she's fun to be around.

Apparently she's not stupid either because she did better than me on the verbal part of her GREs.

She was just in a 2 yr relationship (live-in until it ended) and she's been single for about 4 months. That's not very much time. She never talks about her ex though. IDK about her past before that, so I'm not sure exactly how much experience she's got. I do know that she was fooling around with a few of the guys I've met prior to her finding me.
 

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Deadly_Ripped said:
If anyone cares to hear the techniques that I used on her that I picked up from this website, I could post them (simple ones mostly)
I would like to hear what you did, I'm always interested in success.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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