MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ever had a g/f like this?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wait_out
Master Don Juan
Aha! I've been wondering when someone would post this!
There's a lot of moments in there that made me cringe out of familiarity... and I found this site through KX's epic thread about BPD a while back. Love that series.
I blame my poor judgement on the sex :yes:
ps. this is my favourite one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPJ92hPwKDo
There's a lot of moments in there that made me cringe out of familiarity... and I found this site through KX's epic thread about BPD a while back. Love that series.
I blame my poor judgement on the sex :yes:
ps. this is my favourite one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPJ92hPwKDo
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
That was genius. An exact capture of the female psyche, with a perfect revelation of a woman's typical motivation at the end.MatureDJ said:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I've got to stop watching these. They're scaring me a little. They are so spot-on it's amazing. Kudos to the writer/director. Althought they portray the extreme, we all know these traits are found in every woman. I think I'll clear my pallette with some Battlefield II.
ChumpNoMore
Don Juan
wow. flashbacks.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
countermart
Don Juan
...and that my friends is why you should never, put all your eggs in one basket with one girl. They are (almost) all capable of turning into that.
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