MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ever had a g/f like this?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wait_out
Master Don Juan
Aha! I've been wondering when someone would post this!
There's a lot of moments in there that made me cringe out of familiarity... and I found this site through KX's epic thread about BPD a while back. Love that series.
I blame my poor judgement on the sex :yes:
ps. this is my favourite one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPJ92hPwKDo
There's a lot of moments in there that made me cringe out of familiarity... and I found this site through KX's epic thread about BPD a while back. Love that series.
I blame my poor judgement on the sex :yes:
ps. this is my favourite one: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPJ92hPwKDo
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
That was genius. An exact capture of the female psyche, with a perfect revelation of a woman's typical motivation at the end.MatureDJ said:
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I've got to stop watching these. They're scaring me a little. They are so spot-on it's amazing. Kudos to the writer/director. Althought they portray the extreme, we all know these traits are found in every woman. I think I'll clear my pallette with some Battlefield II.
ChumpNoMore
Don Juan
wow. flashbacks.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
countermart
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...and that my friends is why you should never, put all your eggs in one basket with one girl. They are (almost) all capable of turning into that.
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