"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ever had a chick just disappear with no explanation?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
A better question would be "Ever had a chick who DIDN'T disappear with no explanation?"
They all do at times. If you just don't react it won't count. Men need to play their women for the long run and build a harem of such women. Don't try to have day to day or even week to week control, but make sure she is dying to see you every 2 weeks.
They all do at times. If you just don't react it won't count. Men need to play their women for the long run and build a harem of such women. Don't try to have day to day or even week to week control, but make sure she is dying to see you every 2 weeks.
This is currently happening to me as well. Very strange as I thought everything was going just fine. I've been dating a girl for about 5 weeks. Had a few dates and she has slept over a few times and it was starting to shape into some sort of relationship. Sex has been great, good conversation and lots of cuddling. I like this girl and i'm trying not to get oneitis. She occupies my mind too much so i have to try to get other plates spinning.
Last weekend we went to dinner on saturday, went for drinks later and then home for sex and she slept over again. The next day i had a sporting event so she went home, but came back the same evening for a movie night. She seemed a bit less cuddly, but she still seemed interested. Had sex again and she spent the night. Next morning, I got up first to go to work. I kissed her goodbye but there was this weird awkwardness. I sent her a random text about how we fvcked up the sheets during sex, and she gave a short response but did not use the opportunity to promote further conversation. I left it at that and went silent.
Anyways, she has still not initiated contact throughout this whole week. I've decided not to contact her to gauge her interest level, but so far nothing. This is very strange to me. Normally she has initiated some sort of contact. I've seen her on facebook chat, but she hasn't hit me up. I thought she might hit me up during the weekend (we've met the last 4 saturdays),but nothing. I know that she went out on saturday as she "tagged" herself at a McDonalds with her roommate and 2 other guys late at night. So probably she is spinning more plates and maybe has higher interest for some other guy.
I just feel like i've done everything right, played the game well, and still she isn't hooked. This happens to me over and over again.
I will not contact her again until she contacts me. If she ever does. I need to know if she has low interest or if she is just playing games. The good thing about this is that i think less about my ex, which i have been NC with for 110 days now!!
Good boy!
I'm trying to apply Anti-Dumps machine and only go for girls with high interest. The problem with that is that i'm more attracted to girls that mindfvck me like this girl. She makes me think about her all the time. Also, i can't seem to get girls to fall for me and to display that high level of interest where you can do no wrong. Fvck *****es, make money.
Last weekend we went to dinner on saturday, went for drinks later and then home for sex and she slept over again. The next day i had a sporting event so she went home, but came back the same evening for a movie night. She seemed a bit less cuddly, but she still seemed interested. Had sex again and she spent the night. Next morning, I got up first to go to work. I kissed her goodbye but there was this weird awkwardness. I sent her a random text about how we fvcked up the sheets during sex, and she gave a short response but did not use the opportunity to promote further conversation. I left it at that and went silent.
Anyways, she has still not initiated contact throughout this whole week. I've decided not to contact her to gauge her interest level, but so far nothing. This is very strange to me. Normally she has initiated some sort of contact. I've seen her on facebook chat, but she hasn't hit me up. I thought she might hit me up during the weekend (we've met the last 4 saturdays),but nothing. I know that she went out on saturday as she "tagged" herself at a McDonalds with her roommate and 2 other guys late at night. So probably she is spinning more plates and maybe has higher interest for some other guy.
I just feel like i've done everything right, played the game well, and still she isn't hooked. This happens to me over and over again.
I will not contact her again until she contacts me. If she ever does. I need to know if she has low interest or if she is just playing games. The good thing about this is that i think less about my ex, which i have been NC with for 110 days now!!
Good boy!I'm trying to apply Anti-Dumps machine and only go for girls with high interest. The problem with that is that i'm more attracted to girls that mindfvck me like this girl. She makes me think about her all the time. Also, i can't seem to get girls to fall for me and to display that high level of interest where you can do no wrong. Fvck *****es, make money.
The bold part...she met another guy...and it was right in that period.\O/ said:This is currently happening to me as well. Very strange as I thought everything was going just fine. I've been dating a girl for about 5 weeks. Had a few dates and she has slept over a few times and it was starting to shape into some sort of relationship. Sex has been great, good conversation and lots of cuddling. I like this girl and i'm trying not to get oneitis. She occupies my mind too much so i have to try to get other plates spinning.
Last weekend we went to dinner on saturday, went for drinks later and then home for sex and she slept over again. The next day i had a sporting event so she went home, but came back the same evening for a movie night. She seemed a bit less cuddly, but she still seemed interested. Had sex again and she spent the night. Next morning, I got up first to go to work. I kissed her goodbye but there was this weird awkwardness. I sent her a random text about how we fvcked up the sheets during sex, and she gave a short response but did not use the opportunity to promote further conversation. I left it at that and went silent.
Anyways, she has still not initiated contact throughout this whole week. I've decided not to contact her to gauge her interest level, but so far nothing. This is very strange to me. Normally she has initiated some sort of contact. I've seen her on facebook chat, but she hasn't hit me up. I thought she might hit me up during the weekend (we've met the last 4 saturdays),but nothing. I know that she went out on saturday as she "tagged" herself at a McDonalds with her roommate and 2 other guys late at night. So probably she is spinning more plates and maybe has higher interest for some other guy.
I just feel like i've done everything right, played the game well, and still she isn't hooked. This happens to me over and over again.
I will not contact her again until she contacts me. If she ever does. I need to know if she has low interest or if she is just playing games. The good thing about this is that i think less about my ex, which i have been NC with for 110 days now!!
I'm trying to apply Anti-Dumps machine and only go for girls with high interest. The problem with that is that i'm more attracted to girls that mindfvck me like this girl. She makes me think about her all the time. Also, i can't seem to get girls to fall for me and to display that high level of interest where you can do no wrong. Fvck *****es, make money.