"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ever Dumped A Chick, Then Got Her Back?

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Long story short.. was seeing a chick, awesome sex.. but we fought over some pathetic little issue.. she stopped talking to me, and after one week of no contact with her.. i ended it..


I want to reel her back in as a plate..

She maybe involved with someone else.. but i,m not sure..


Any dudes on here, got rid of a chick, then pulled her back in?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
grow a pair dude this girl is fvkced up beyond repair and does not give 2 fux about you

Fvcked up beyond repair lol.. nice.. i have two other plates now, so i thought she might make a good addition lol
 

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Pairs right Soul..FUBAR. Stick with clean slate plates, none of this dirty broken sh*tty plates. Oi!
 

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Why is the new conventional wisdom "make every chick you've ever dealt with a plate." We used to talk about how important it was to move on, and get away from the women who weighed us down. That's what being a DJ is, getting rid of the excess in life, and trying to live a life free from bad women and stupid pressures.

But now it's like "I broke it off with a BPD. I want her as a plate. How do I proceed?" "I fvcked a fat chick.....but want her as a plate. Advice?" The idea of plate spinning was that inbetween relationships you'd be chasing several women at once, then if things didn't work out with one, you'd still have others to choose from. It was a way to boost confidence and your skills at chasing women. It wasn't made with the idea that people would still be chasing a "HB 8 from Subway" two years later.

Remember one of the most important DJ ideas that we've gotta be moving foward. You can't be doing so when you're still messing around with women from your past.
 

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I agree Zapp. I don't want my BPD ex as a plate. I don't want anything to do with her. I'd prefer to meet someone else that makes me forget all about her haha.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yeah I did this several times with a low self esteem chick a few years ago, it was as easy as saying "i want you back"

I wouldn't advise it, you'll never be satisfied, and it prevents you improving so you can find someone better.
 

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Is this the same topic about that same chick? Or a new one about a new girl?


In any case, you shouldn't want an old used crap again. Why would you
 

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We buy a new car… it does not live up to our expectations, or is a flat out lemon.
Why would anyone want to buy it back after it's had another driver/owner…
 
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