"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ever Dumped A Chick, Then Got Her Back?

soulforge

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Long story short.. was seeing a chick, awesome sex.. but we fought over some pathetic little issue.. she stopped talking to me, and after one week of no contact with her.. i ended it..


I want to reel her back in as a plate..

She maybe involved with someone else.. but i,m not sure..


Any dudes on here, got rid of a chick, then pulled her back in?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
grow a pair dude this girl is fvkced up beyond repair and does not give 2 fux about you

Fvcked up beyond repair lol.. nice.. i have two other plates now, so i thought she might make a good addition lol
 

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Pairs right Soul..FUBAR. Stick with clean slate plates, none of this dirty broken sh*tty plates. Oi!
 

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Why is the new conventional wisdom "make every chick you've ever dealt with a plate." We used to talk about how important it was to move on, and get away from the women who weighed us down. That's what being a DJ is, getting rid of the excess in life, and trying to live a life free from bad women and stupid pressures.

But now it's like "I broke it off with a BPD. I want her as a plate. How do I proceed?" "I fvcked a fat chick.....but want her as a plate. Advice?" The idea of plate spinning was that inbetween relationships you'd be chasing several women at once, then if things didn't work out with one, you'd still have others to choose from. It was a way to boost confidence and your skills at chasing women. It wasn't made with the idea that people would still be chasing a "HB 8 from Subway" two years later.

Remember one of the most important DJ ideas that we've gotta be moving foward. You can't be doing so when you're still messing around with women from your past.
 

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I agree Zapp. I don't want my BPD ex as a plate. I don't want anything to do with her. I'd prefer to meet someone else that makes me forget all about her haha.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah I did this several times with a low self esteem chick a few years ago, it was as easy as saying "i want you back"

I wouldn't advise it, you'll never be satisfied, and it prevents you improving so you can find someone better.
 

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Is this the same topic about that same chick? Or a new one about a new girl?


In any case, you shouldn't want an old used crap again. Why would you
 

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We buy a new car… it does not live up to our expectations, or is a flat out lemon.
Why would anyone want to buy it back after it's had another driver/owner…
 
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