Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
incel?Whybwould u want to join a legion that fights for a cuckold like macro that continues to destroy his nation?
elaborateI thought about it once but fighting for France isn’t my gig.
I know it’s not about France for you. It’s about the challenge. Keep in mind that eventually the hell weeks end and then it’s all about what your MOS is.
If you can’t choose the light infantry or something, what’s the point?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You need to be tough as hell for that kind of job, more mentally rather than phisicaly. Im working in police special forces in my country for two years now and believe me the drill that you go through is about 30 % of what legionars need to succesfully achieve to formally be in legion forces,and is a really tough one. Downvote for legia of foreignes is really low income and i would say that its not worth itnot bad if you can get to france get a all clear from interpol and take the training
elaborateMy cousin joined the legion more than 5 years ago. Took a travel trip across the Europe and jumped off in Paris. From what he told me it is mainly used as an immigration bridge for guys from Eastern Europe.
i was denied bad eye sightUnless Im an international criminal that needs to disappear, I dont see the reason when you can join your countries army.
If you need military training and connections to be a mercenary and get rich then yeah ofc, thats some kind of "university" too for such jobs.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
message meYou need to be tough as hell for that kind of job, more mentally rather than phisicaly. Im working in police special forces in my country for two years now and believe me the drill that you go through is about 30 % of what legionars need to succesfully achieve to formally be in legion forces,and is a really tough one. Downvote for legia of foreignes is really low income and i would say that its not worth it