That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
incel?Whybwould u want to join a legion that fights for a cuckold like macro that continues to destroy his nation?
elaborateI thought about it once but fighting for France isn’t my gig.
I know it’s not about France for you. It’s about the challenge. Keep in mind that eventually the hell weeks end and then it’s all about what your MOS is.
If you can’t choose the light infantry or something, what’s the point?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You need to be tough as hell for that kind of job, more mentally rather than phisicaly. Im working in police special forces in my country for two years now and believe me the drill that you go through is about 30 % of what legionars need to succesfully achieve to formally be in legion forces,and is a really tough one. Downvote for legia of foreignes is really low income and i would say that its not worth itnot bad if you can get to france get a all clear from interpol and take the training
elaborateMy cousin joined the legion more than 5 years ago. Took a travel trip across the Europe and jumped off in Paris. From what he told me it is mainly used as an immigration bridge for guys from Eastern Europe.
i was denied bad eye sightUnless Im an international criminal that needs to disappear, I dont see the reason when you can join your countries army.
If you need military training and connections to be a mercenary and get rich then yeah ofc, thats some kind of "university" too for such jobs.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
message meYou need to be tough as hell for that kind of job, more mentally rather than phisicaly. Im working in police special forces in my country for two years now and believe me the drill that you go through is about 30 % of what legionars need to succesfully achieve to formally be in legion forces,and is a really tough one. Downvote for legia of foreignes is really low income and i would say that its not worth it