"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ever approached another girl while on a date?

tihash

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I was at a Starbucks tonight with a girl I met from a cold approach. It was our Day 2. The date girl was a 7. A girl walks in 5 min. after I get there (and after my date began) and was a 9. It was like punishment to sit there and see her all by her lonesome typing away on her netbook.

I wind up walking my date to her car and kiss closing her. I thought about walking back in but thought I'd look like a weirdo. Has anyone done this? Any tips?

In retorspect, I think I should have just walked back in and sarged as usual and mentioned I was there with a friend and noticed her and had to come back in and meet her...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WaterTiger

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AFTER the first date is over, sure! Go for it.

(When I first read the title of the thread I thought you were sarging girl 2 IN FRONT OF girl 1, which would be very mean!)
 

amoka

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You certainly should have gone for it, dude. Lesson learn.
 

squirrels

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Eh, why not?

I've tried to get a number from Girl #2 at a bar or club while Girl #1 was in the bathroom/off doing whatever...usually Girl #1 gets back before you can successfully extract the number from Girl #2.
 
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