"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ever approached another girl while on a date?

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tihash

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I was at a Starbucks tonight with a girl I met from a cold approach. It was our Day 2. The date girl was a 7. A girl walks in 5 min. after I get there (and after my date began) and was a 9. It was like punishment to sit there and see her all by her lonesome typing away on her netbook.

I wind up walking my date to her car and kiss closing her. I thought about walking back in but thought I'd look like a weirdo. Has anyone done this? Any tips?

In retorspect, I think I should have just walked back in and sarged as usual and mentioned I was there with a friend and noticed her and had to come back in and meet her...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AFTER the first date is over, sure! Go for it.

(When I first read the title of the thread I thought you were sarging girl 2 IN FRONT OF girl 1, which would be very mean!)
 
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You certainly should have gone for it, dude. Lesson learn.
 
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Eh, why not?

I've tried to get a number from Girl #2 at a bar or club while Girl #1 was in the bathroom/off doing whatever...usually Girl #1 gets back before you can successfully extract the number from Girl #2.
 
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