"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ever approached another girl while on a date?

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tihash

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I was at a Starbucks tonight with a girl I met from a cold approach. It was our Day 2. The date girl was a 7. A girl walks in 5 min. after I get there (and after my date began) and was a 9. It was like punishment to sit there and see her all by her lonesome typing away on her netbook.

I wind up walking my date to her car and kiss closing her. I thought about walking back in but thought I'd look like a weirdo. Has anyone done this? Any tips?

In retorspect, I think I should have just walked back in and sarged as usual and mentioned I was there with a friend and noticed her and had to come back in and meet her...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AFTER the first date is over, sure! Go for it.

(When I first read the title of the thread I thought you were sarging girl 2 IN FRONT OF girl 1, which would be very mean!)
 
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You certainly should have gone for it, dude. Lesson learn.
 
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Eh, why not?

I've tried to get a number from Girl #2 at a bar or club while Girl #1 was in the bathroom/off doing whatever...usually Girl #1 gets back before you can successfully extract the number from Girl #2.
 
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