So i finally found a chick im interested in. Had coffee for two hours Wednesday. Asked her out for Saturday yesterday and she texted me back saying she’s in the hospital running a fever and has to get her tonsils out. She got sick the day after we went out.....She said “I’ve been moaning in pain all morning and throwing up” and we talked for a bit.
Put me in an awkward situation because if i ask her if she wants me to come by it makes me look weird considering i only went out with her one time and it was only coffee.
However if i don’t offer to do anything it makes me look like a piece of ****.
I just said “really sorry to hear that.. call me if you need anything.” To not look needy or anything. Didn’t want to look like a selfish ******* that has no sympathy for a girl in the hospital either.
Im afraid the momentum from the date is going to be lost now since too much time has gone by. Should i text her to follow up how she’s doing or just wait until i run into her at the gym again ?
Just awkward situation...if i show that i care i risk looking weird or desperate considering i barely know this girl . If i don’t contact her i risk her thinking im a piece of ****
Put me in an awkward situation because if i ask her if she wants me to come by it makes me look weird considering i only went out with her one time and it was only coffee.
However if i don’t offer to do anything it makes me look like a piece of ****.
I just said “really sorry to hear that.. call me if you need anything.” To not look needy or anything. Didn’t want to look like a selfish ******* that has no sympathy for a girl in the hospital either.
Im afraid the momentum from the date is going to be lost now since too much time has gone by. Should i text her to follow up how she’s doing or just wait until i run into her at the gym again ?
Just awkward situation...if i show that i care i risk looking weird or desperate considering i barely know this girl . If i don’t contact her i risk her thinking im a piece of ****
