"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Even in cultures where nice guys get married, they still finish last

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Woman wants a divorce because her husband is too nice...unattractive traits are unattractive no matter how culturally accepted they are.

I've been married for 24 years, because women, regardless of what they say only find men attractive that other women want to have sex with. I do love my wife however it's not some mythical unconditional fairy land love, and she absolutely understands this. She is well taken care of and pampered, however she also understands that this is dependent on my resources. When this woman says she wants someone to argue with, she is lying. What she wants is someone to tell her exactly what to do regardless of what she wants to do.
 
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