Tinder is like an easier POF and OKC to use because you just swipe. Mostly garbage women on them.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tinder is like an easier POF and OKC to use because you just swipe. Mostly garbage women on them.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No, I've noticed this a lot as well recently. A few years ago I was trying out POF off and on, nothing came of my efforts through that. Anyway, I checked it out recently and just by logging on and being there for a few minutes I was already getting spam messages from these fake bot profiles. Going through the search area I saw a lot of fake profiles on there, which was something I hadn't seen before.Is it just my state or is anyone noticing more fake type profiles on match, okc and tinder lately? I've been noticing a lot of fake and too good to be true type profiles that last couple weeks. I really hate having to weed through it. 5 years ago when I briefly used old I dont recall seeing nearly as much if this bs looking stuff.
One obvious fake, I almost think it might be ran by match is this perfect HB nearly 10 on match about 60 miles north of me. She's on literally 24/7. And her profile has her MBA, daddy owns business and photos from all over the place non local looking. Profile looks strong. Literally she's on 24/7 or whoever is running it. I messaged it before and my message was read.No, I've noticed this a lot as well recently. A few years ago I was trying out POF off and on, nothing came of my efforts through that. Anyway, I checked it out recently and just by logging on and being there for a few minutes I was already getting spam messages from these fake bot profiles. Going through the search area I saw a lot of fake profiles on there, which was something I hadn't seen before.
I've tried tinder off and on over the past few years, again no luck with that, and I do remember seeing a lot of fake profiles on there as well.
OLD sucks, it doesn't work. Focus on meeting women through other means.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yea worrying about a lady boy sure is a scary thought.Even Antone fails on OLD.. He is a good looking god.. 100% of women on OLD want Antone chase them. When Antone says meet me in the city, women come up with excuses not to meet him.. I found out a lot about women through Antone, it turns out some of them are trannies, others are not even in my city, yet others have fake photos.