Tinder is like an easier POF and OKC to use because you just swipe. Mostly garbage women on them.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tinder is like an easier POF and OKC to use because you just swipe. Mostly garbage women on them.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No, I've noticed this a lot as well recently. A few years ago I was trying out POF off and on, nothing came of my efforts through that. Anyway, I checked it out recently and just by logging on and being there for a few minutes I was already getting spam messages from these fake bot profiles. Going through the search area I saw a lot of fake profiles on there, which was something I hadn't seen before.Is it just my state or is anyone noticing more fake type profiles on match, okc and tinder lately? I've been noticing a lot of fake and too good to be true type profiles that last couple weeks. I really hate having to weed through it. 5 years ago when I briefly used old I dont recall seeing nearly as much if this bs looking stuff.
One obvious fake, I almost think it might be ran by match is this perfect HB nearly 10 on match about 60 miles north of me. She's on literally 24/7. And her profile has her MBA, daddy owns business and photos from all over the place non local looking. Profile looks strong. Literally she's on 24/7 or whoever is running it. I messaged it before and my message was read.No, I've noticed this a lot as well recently. A few years ago I was trying out POF off and on, nothing came of my efforts through that. Anyway, I checked it out recently and just by logging on and being there for a few minutes I was already getting spam messages from these fake bot profiles. Going through the search area I saw a lot of fake profiles on there, which was something I hadn't seen before.
I've tried tinder off and on over the past few years, again no luck with that, and I do remember seeing a lot of fake profiles on there as well.
OLD sucks, it doesn't work. Focus on meeting women through other means.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yea worrying about a lady boy sure is a scary thought.Even Antone fails on OLD.. He is a good looking god.. 100% of women on OLD want Antone chase them. When Antone says meet me in the city, women come up with excuses not to meet him.. I found out a lot about women through Antone, it turns out some of them are trannies, others are not even in my city, yet others have fake photos.