GodOFcharm
Don Juan
Is it recommended to act like a DJ/Alpha on the first day of a new school year? Becasue ther'ye alot of people who stay quite and observe their surroundings before starting anything.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Establishing a rep on the first day
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
crystalmeth
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it's your call, i'm alpha & not quiet.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Alright heres the deal. I just transferred schools, and on the first day of lifting with the team, I kept quite. Joked around a little bit with some kids, got my bearings, figured out who were the top doggs and who were the followers. Next day at football camp, got myself right in with the big boys. Joked around, acted like I'd been there my whole life. Only about 2 weeks later, and basically everybody on the team knows my name, basically everybody wants me on the team, basically everybody loves be being there.
If you've been to this school before, no need to stay quiet. If this is a new school, take a day or two to figure out what you need to do, and then do it.
My plans on the first day? Walk right in as if I run the show. Hell, I own this place already.
If you've been to this school before, no need to stay quiet. If this is a new school, take a day or two to figure out what you need to do, and then do it.
My plans on the first day? Walk right in as if I run the show. Hell, I own this place already.
GodOFcharm
Don Juan
Skilla_Staz said:My plans on the first day? Walk right in as if I run the show. Hell, I own this place already.
yeah, that was what I was thinking. Start strong and dammit STAY THAT WAY!
Can i get an amen?
I don't understand how you guys claim to be one way, say alpha, when you act like it's a light switch.
Why do you even ask if you should be one way and when?
The facts that you're actively concerned about your 'rep' and unsure of how to act raise red flags in my mind.
Why do you even ask if you should be one way and when?
The facts that you're actively concerned about your 'rep' and unsure of how to act raise red flags in my mind.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
Thats how he made it sound lol. But anyway just work the whole school as much as you can for the first day, make sure the girls are seeing you talk to other girls too and just work your way around, have a good time. School is rather easy when it comes to gaming, social proof can go a long way.LikRetsam said:I don't understand how you guys claim to be one way, say alpha, when you act like it's a light switch.