"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Establishing a rep on the first day

GodOFcharm

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Is it recommended to act like a DJ/Alpha on the first day of a new school year? Becasue ther'ye alot of people who stay quite and observe their surroundings before starting anything.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skilla_Staz

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Alright heres the deal. I just transferred schools, and on the first day of lifting with the team, I kept quite. Joked around a little bit with some kids, got my bearings, figured out who were the top doggs and who were the followers. Next day at football camp, got myself right in with the big boys. Joked around, acted like I'd been there my whole life. Only about 2 weeks later, and basically everybody on the team knows my name, basically everybody wants me on the team, basically everybody loves be being there.


If you've been to this school before, no need to stay quiet. If this is a new school, take a day or two to figure out what you need to do, and then do it.

My plans on the first day? Walk right in as if I run the show. Hell, I own this place already.
 

GodOFcharm

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Skilla_Staz said:
My plans on the first day? Walk right in as if I run the show. Hell, I own this place already.

yeah, that was what I was thinking. Start strong and dammit STAY THAT WAY!

Can i get an amen?
 

LikRetsam

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I don't understand how you guys claim to be one way, say alpha, when you act like it's a light switch.

Why do you even ask if you should be one way and when?

The facts that you're actively concerned about your 'rep' and unsure of how to act raise red flags in my mind.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Distant Light

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LikRetsam said:
I don't understand how you guys claim to be one way, say alpha, when you act like it's a light switch.
Thats how he made it sound lol. But anyway just work the whole school as much as you can for the first day, make sure the girls are seeing you talk to other girls too and just work your way around, have a good time. School is rather easy when it comes to gaming, social proof can go a long way.
 
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