"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Establishing a rep on the first day

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GodOFcharm

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Is it recommended to act like a DJ/Alpha on the first day of a new school year? Becasue ther'ye alot of people who stay quite and observe their surroundings before starting anything.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alright heres the deal. I just transferred schools, and on the first day of lifting with the team, I kept quite. Joked around a little bit with some kids, got my bearings, figured out who were the top doggs and who were the followers. Next day at football camp, got myself right in with the big boys. Joked around, acted like I'd been there my whole life. Only about 2 weeks later, and basically everybody on the team knows my name, basically everybody wants me on the team, basically everybody loves be being there.


If you've been to this school before, no need to stay quiet. If this is a new school, take a day or two to figure out what you need to do, and then do it.

My plans on the first day? Walk right in as if I run the show. Hell, I own this place already.
 
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Skilla_Staz said:
My plans on the first day? Walk right in as if I run the show. Hell, I own this place already.
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yeah, that was what I was thinking. Start strong and dammit STAY THAT WAY!

Can i get an amen?
 
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I don't understand how you guys claim to be one way, say alpha, when you act like it's a light switch.

Why do you even ask if you should be one way and when?

The facts that you're actively concerned about your 'rep' and unsure of how to act raise red flags in my mind.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LikRetsam said:
I don't understand how you guys claim to be one way, say alpha, when you act like it's a light switch.
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Thats how he made it sound lol. But anyway just work the whole school as much as you can for the first day, make sure the girls are seeing you talk to other girls too and just work your way around, have a good time. School is rather easy when it comes to gaming, social proof can go a long way.
 
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