carreyreincarnate1
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what are some ways to escalate in High School?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
escalation?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
carreyreincarnate1
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just in general, im tired of being stuck in the friend zone.
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i have been kinoing and flirting with her alot, but i don't feel like its getting anywhere. i see her only after school at drama if that helps.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Heres some general advice that I think would help you (and me):
If you really want the girl,it's better to GO FOR IT and get flat-out rejected then try to walk on that "thin line" where you stay "friends" even after she indirectly makes it clear that you have no chance with her.
If you really want the girl,it's better to GO FOR IT and get flat-out rejected then try to walk on that "thin line" where you stay "friends" even after she indirectly makes it clear that you have no chance with her.
read the bibles and dont do friend things with her and everything wil be fine, don't talk to them about other guys or be an emotional tampon for her, use ****y & funny, kino and keep away and you will be fine, be confident and make a move, she will probably think you are gay or don't have interest and move on