"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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escalation?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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619joe

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Bro you gotta give more info.

With a girl in class?In the hallways?Have you been doing any escalating yet?Have you started flirting?What have you done so far?

I could go on and on but I hope you get the point
 
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i have been kinoing and flirting with her alot, but i don't feel like its getting anywhere. i see her only after school at drama if that helps.
 

sam3083

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Thats a really tough one. Escalation is very complex and specific to situations.

Read the bible, trust the gut, and you'll have your answers.

On that note, it'll also take alot of balls at first, lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LostAndConfused

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Heres some general advice that I think would help you (and me):

If you really want the girl,it's better to GO FOR IT and get flat-out rejected then try to walk on that "thin line" where you stay "friends" even after she indirectly makes it clear that you have no chance with her.
 

sam3083

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Absolutely. Lost&Confused is exactly right there.

You should definitely go for it all out. Escalate her by asking her out somewhere.
 

playa99

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read the bibles and dont do friend things with her and everything wil be fine, don't talk to them about other guys or be an emotional tampon for her, use ****y & funny, kino and keep away and you will be fine, be confident and make a move, she will probably think you are gay or don't have interest and move on
 

faiNt`

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I have the exact same problem, I think I might be stuck in the friends zone. Then again, certain things make me think I'm completely wrong. BLEH
 
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