carreyreincarnate1
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what are some ways to escalate in High School?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
escalation?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
carreyreincarnate1
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just in general, im tired of being stuck in the friend zone.
carreyreincarnate1
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i have been kinoing and flirting with her alot, but i don't feel like its getting anywhere. i see her only after school at drama if that helps.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LostAndConfused
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Heres some general advice that I think would help you (and me):
If you really want the girl,it's better to GO FOR IT and get flat-out rejected then try to walk on that "thin line" where you stay "friends" even after she indirectly makes it clear that you have no chance with her.
If you really want the girl,it's better to GO FOR IT and get flat-out rejected then try to walk on that "thin line" where you stay "friends" even after she indirectly makes it clear that you have no chance with her.
read the bibles and dont do friend things with her and everything wil be fine, don't talk to them about other guys or be an emotional tampon for her, use ****y & funny, kino and keep away and you will be fine, be confident and make a move, she will probably think you are gay or don't have interest and move on