"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What does this mean?

Searching the forums, I can't find any earlier discussions of this error message.

All I've been trying to do is post some more information relating to the law changes in NSW, Australia that RUG posted about. This seems innocuous enough.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've never come across that. The only way to figure it out is to PM the post to a mod and we can try to figure out what's triggering it.
 

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This is from another forum that uses vbulletin, just a guess on my part, but I think it has to do with you being a new member.

New users aren't allowed to post any URLs or images until they build a certain level of "trust" by being an active member of the community. This is to prevent spam and trolls posting pornographic or triggering material.
Yes,

I'm hardly new around here but I get your point, it must be the links.

Actually, I can't even reply to your complete post because it contains a link in it.

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I'll have to brush up on the forum rules. I know there's a numerical limit to a new user's posts, but it looks like he's under that. @Morpheus, were there images or URLs involved?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh, you posted at same time as me. Must be a link limitation since you only show 8 posts.
 

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Perhaps it would be helpful to know how many posts one needs before one has enough "trust".
 

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I have a feeling it's 10, but I just put the question up in the mods corner and will get back to you with the info once I get it.
 

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In fact you should reply to this, and then you will have 11. Try to post it again in the appropriate thread and see if it's allowed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Under 25 posts, it's a 10 post limit per day and no links allowed. After 25 posts the system will release the restrictions.

Of course this is in place to minimize spam. We spend a lot of time dealing with spam manually, and this rule serves to keep the workload manageable.
 

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Thanks for that.

I ended up posting it without the links. If I need to post links, I'll ask someone to do it for me until I get to the 25 post limit.
 
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