"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Epidemic of BV

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm not saying that it wouldn't be advantageous, from a business perspective, to be a particularly handsome male gynecologist. I'm just saying that I can't image having to examine a parade of vaginas, from 12 to 112, 40 hrs/wk 52 wks/yr, year after year, and then just not wanting to see that particular orifice in my free time. There was a reason the cobblers family never had shoes, and I imagine there are plenty of frustrated wives of gynecologist, too.
I imagine so. Probably desensitized.
 

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in my humble opinion, I'd guess a male gyno would have test levels through the roof.
Not if he can't fvck them. It would "train" him to not get excited around pvssy and just cause he sees it doesn't mean he can fvck. Almost like being cvcked.

Its not like he gets to be a raging bull in there. Because if he would his reinforcement would have his test levels jacked. When a man can fvck what he wants it does something to his psyche and thus hormones.
 
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Not if he can't fvck them. It would "train" him to not get excited around pvssy and just cause he sees it doesn't mean he can fvck. Almost like being cvcked.

Its not like he gets to be a raging bukl in there. Because if he would his reinforcement would have his test levels jacked. When a man can fvck what he wants it does something to his psyche and thus hormones.
this archetypal man should never expose himself to even pictures of pvzzy then. Seriously.

I'm just now thinking that a man like this could probably do very well as a performer in porn movies himself.
The women that would be in his environment would only be dtf ones and that psyche and hormones reinforcement would be built in.(guaranteed)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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this archetypal man should never expose himself to even pictures of pvzzy then. Seriously.

I'm just now thinking that a man like this could probably do very well as a performer in porn movies himself.
The women that would be in his environment would only be dtf ones and that psyche and hormones reinforcement would be built in.(guaranteed)
Exposure to too many pics gives away your sexual energy. It's a fact. When you remove the pics for good you'll get this attention back and act properly in real life.
 

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Not really...especially if he's repulsed by much of what he sees, which, odds are, he would be. Even if he was the Team Gyno to the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders, he'd had to dissociate; it's not like he could walk around with an 8hr boner every day. It wouldn't be a healthy job, for any normal man. I'm sure it pays much better than a lot of worse jobs, though.

Don't get me wrong. I think my own diick is beautiful, but they call it "bumping uglies" for a reason, and no-one should have to examine strange genitals for a living, and anyone who chooses to is probably a little off.
Yeh you are correct. I did a multi week rotation with an about to retire gynecologist. We become decent friends because we shared a common love of women. He was a South American old school doctor who has his practice in Chicago. He who would sexually harass his patients in a joking manner. He got away with it because he was old. He told me he still is a horn dog because the puzzy outside of work is attractive. He says that his job doesn't effect his sexuality because he views this puzzy as unattractive puzzy. He doesn't generalize it to all women. He was definitely a womanizer though even though he was married. We got along very well lol
 

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Yeh you are correct. I did a multi week rotation with an about to retire gynecologist. We become decent friends because we shared a common love of women. He was a South American old school doctor who has his practice in Chicago. He who would sexually harass his patients in a joking manner. He got away with it because he was old. He told me he still is a horn dog because the puzzy outside of work is attractive. He says that his job doesn't effect his sexuality because he views this puzzy as unattractive puzzy. He doesn't generalize it to all women. He was definitely a womanizer though even though he was married. We got along very well lol
He was lucky to have good pvssy at home. I see how that could work for him.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not really...especially if he's repulsed by much of what he sees, which, odds are, he would be. Even if he were the Team Gyno to the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders, he'd have to dissociate, to remain professional; it's not like he could walk around with an 8hr boner every day. It wouldn't be a healthy job, for any normal man. I'm sure it pays much better than a lot of worse jobs, though.

Don't get me wrong. I think my own diick is beautiful, but they call it "bumping uglies" for a reason, and no-one should have to examine strange genitals for a living, and anyone who chooses to is probably a little off.
ask me what subject my last painting was?


no, don't ask
 

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Only happened once with me. Pulled her up off the bed and threw her into the shower. She got the hint and she would shower before coming over or jump into the shower when she got there.
no need to bring it up. They know they stink. I know when I’ve been in the wilderness that I stink. Just think how much she would stink.

I think panties cause it In many cases. Make her go commando. I think you will be surprised at the difference. Less bacterial growth.
As long as the crotch is lined with cotton, it's fine. It's when they use the one's w/o cotton. That becomes an issue.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this archetypal man should never expose himself to even pictures of pvzzy then. Seriously.
I'm tying in no porn (not nofap) into my lifestyle, I need all the help I can get from a "man level" of things. Let's see how this goes. No sugar, no porn, no drugs, limited alcohol, just rules, timers and tickboxes.

We all need to be better men and yes it takes work but I believe thee juice is worth the squeeze on this one.
 

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I'm tying in no porn (not nofap) into my lifestyle, I need all the help I can get from a "man level" of things. Let's see how this goes. No sugar, no porn, no drugs, limited alcohol, just rules, timers and tickboxes.

We all need to be better men and yes it takes work but I believe thee juice is worth the squeeze on this one.
You've got this; I see your fire.
 

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Don’t have enough experience with poor hygiene women so I can’t evaluate that. I’m thinking anything that prevents air circulation could possibly be a problem. Just shower and go commando for play time. Or throw on some cute panties right after the shower for play time.
It's not as simple as showering and going commando. Though, females, should in theory, sleep with they crotch area open at night.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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