"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Enough of this ALPHA/BETA bull****

sylvester the cat

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I'm tired of this Alpha/beta bull****. It's ridiculous. One man's Alpha is another Man's Beta. A more apt title would be:

Informed or Uninformed, or Enlightened or Ignorant.

Because that is what all this comes down to. A 'Beta' is beta because he doesn't know any different. He has not been educated to know what is what. How many so-called Alpha's here were once Beta's only to change once they educated themselves.

What is the DJ bible if not a wealth of information? Knowledge is power!

Knowledge is Alpha. Ignorance is Beta! :cuss:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Atom Smasher

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Almost. There's an additional challenge: A man can be fully informed, but because of emotional issues cannot or does not implement that knowledge.

So I would say that "Alpha" is the man who is informed and who also puts the information into practice.

I always distill the term, "Alpha" (a word I don't normally use) into "Leader". "Alpha" in the animal kingdom means the top dog, while "Alpha" in human terms usually refers to a top dog in a more generalized sense... someone who is sure of himself and who can lead.

Of course, when a man displays leadership skills, others will automatically follow along and grant leadership to the one who they think knows what to do for the "pack". The exception is another "alpha" who might challenge the current top dog's position.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Almost. There's an additional challenge: A man can be fully informed, but because of emotional issues cannot or does not implement that knowledge.
So I would say that "Alpha" is the man who is informed and who also puts the information into practice.

I always distill the term, "Alpha" (a word I don't normally use) into "Leader". "Alpha" in the animal kingdom means the top dog, while "Alpha" in human terms usually refers to a top dog in a more generalized sense... someone who is sure of himself and who can lead.

Of course, when a man displays leadership skills, others will automatically follow along and grant leadership to the one who they think knows what to do for the "pack". The exception is another "alpha" who might challenge the current top dog's position.
Yes. Good point.
 
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