"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Enough of this ALPHA/BETA bull****

sylvester the cat

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I'm tired of this Alpha/beta bull****. It's ridiculous. One man's Alpha is another Man's Beta. A more apt title would be:

Informed or Uninformed, or Enlightened or Ignorant.

Because that is what all this comes down to. A 'Beta' is beta because he doesn't know any different. He has not been educated to know what is what. How many so-called Alpha's here were once Beta's only to change once they educated themselves.

What is the DJ bible if not a wealth of information? Knowledge is power!

Knowledge is Alpha. Ignorance is Beta! :cuss:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Atom Smasher

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Almost. There's an additional challenge: A man can be fully informed, but because of emotional issues cannot or does not implement that knowledge.

So I would say that "Alpha" is the man who is informed and who also puts the information into practice.

I always distill the term, "Alpha" (a word I don't normally use) into "Leader". "Alpha" in the animal kingdom means the top dog, while "Alpha" in human terms usually refers to a top dog in a more generalized sense... someone who is sure of himself and who can lead.

Of course, when a man displays leadership skills, others will automatically follow along and grant leadership to the one who they think knows what to do for the "pack". The exception is another "alpha" who might challenge the current top dog's position.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Almost. There's an additional challenge: A man can be fully informed, but because of emotional issues cannot or does not implement that knowledge.
So I would say that "Alpha" is the man who is informed and who also puts the information into practice.

I always distill the term, "Alpha" (a word I don't normally use) into "Leader". "Alpha" in the animal kingdom means the top dog, while "Alpha" in human terms usually refers to a top dog in a more generalized sense... someone who is sure of himself and who can lead.

Of course, when a man displays leadership skills, others will automatically follow along and grant leadership to the one who they think knows what to do for the "pack". The exception is another "alpha" who might challenge the current top dog's position.
Yes. Good point.
 
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