"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Enjoys being single"? Srsly?!?!?1

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She has a few guy friends, but plenty of girl friends, too. She doesn't come off as "one of the guys." I've fruitlessly pursued plenty of them in my lifetime.

Still, this story ending like all the others is a possibility for which I will have to steel myself as it is, so it seems.

Ah well. Still too close to tell with this one. I'll let you know how **** develops, but right now, it seems that the toga party is cancelled, and I've yet to get a phonecall from her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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UPDATE:

****, guys, she just ain't interested. She only sees me as a friend.

Too bad. I really, really, REALLY wanted this one, too.

Ah well, thanks for your help anyway, guys. A friend of mine has hooked me up with a cute slut sometime this week, so I'll be fine, overall.

I don't quite remember who wrote on this board, concerning depression, that one has total control over one's attitude and has a choice to remain depressed, but massive thanks to that true gentleman. I'm feeling halfway-decent right now because I choose to feel halfway-decent.
 
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