"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Enjoys being single"? Srsly?!?!?1

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She has a few guy friends, but plenty of girl friends, too. She doesn't come off as "one of the guys." I've fruitlessly pursued plenty of them in my lifetime.

Still, this story ending like all the others is a possibility for which I will have to steel myself as it is, so it seems.

Ah well. Still too close to tell with this one. I'll let you know how **** develops, but right now, it seems that the toga party is cancelled, and I've yet to get a phonecall from her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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UPDATE:

****, guys, she just ain't interested. She only sees me as a friend.

Too bad. I really, really, REALLY wanted this one, too.

Ah well, thanks for your help anyway, guys. A friend of mine has hooked me up with a cute slut sometime this week, so I'll be fine, overall.

I don't quite remember who wrote on this board, concerning depression, that one has total control over one's attitude and has a choice to remain depressed, but massive thanks to that true gentleman. I'm feeling halfway-decent right now because I choose to feel halfway-decent.
 
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