Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
The grass is always greener...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
english v american women
- Thread starter peacock
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mr_knowit_all
Senior Don Juan
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Very true. But who cares if you get American women? Brits seem to be much more loyal and interesting. American women are great for sex, but so are those limey chicks(No offense to my English Dj's).......
mroriginal2
Don Juan
you english Djs should go to southern europe or south america, youll get more pyssy their I think.
Not Quite There
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Not to big myself up
but my chilean housemate last year sent her mates pictures of me and apparantly they where all asking questions about me. Apparantly, if your white european, if you go to South America women will flock to you. ...
Kalel21
Don Juan
I wonder how South American women think of Black Men?????????????????? especially older Black men??????
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.