Good_ol_boy
Senior Don Juan
The grass is always greener...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
english v american women
- Thread starter peacock
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mr_knowit_all
Senior Don Juan
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Very true. But who cares if you get American women? Brits seem to be much more loyal and interesting. American women are great for sex, but so are those limey chicks(No offense to my English Dj's).......
mroriginal2
Don Juan
you english Djs should go to southern europe or south america, youll get more pyssy their I think.
Not Quite There
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Not to big myself up
but my chilean housemate last year sent her mates pictures of me and apparantly they where all asking questions about me. Apparantly, if your white european, if you go to South America women will flock to you. ...
Kalel21
Don Juan
I wonder how South American women think of Black Men?????????????????? especially older Black men??????
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.