"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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being english, i love going to the US as american women absolutely love us english gents! not only that but i find they are far more approachable, friendly etc and generally easy to pull.

english women on the other hand (particularly in london) have the barriers up from the off and very hard work.

anyone else have any further thoughts on this?...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I find english women much easier to pull.

Odd!
 

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I never fail to pull in the US.....ITS SOO EASY!

They love the accent and I have a rather strong british accent.

US girls are easy to pull and you just go for the fit ones.

Going to the US skiing in April. Cant wait to get out sarging over the pond.
 

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There are lots of threads about how women go for the "new kid in town". This is just that, US chicks can tell you "ain't from around these parts" and go gaga over it.
 

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i find english women easier to pull. more conservative and less superficial than american women.

question: what do english women think about american accents?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GUYS. When you post please put whether you are English Or American.
 

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I am American, and I can say that I have MUCH better success with British chicks. There's this place in Corfu, Greece called Cavos that I've been to a few times. It's basically a tourist town full of nothing but bars, clubs, and hotels... I could walk up to girls and often have them making out with me in less than 3 minutes. Quite a difference from my experiences here.
 

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but mate, you're in miami! the women there are way hotter than in london...
 

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As long as you dudes stick away from Ukranian and Russian women we'll get along just fine :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Tomatoes
I never fail to pull in the US.....ITS SOO EASY!

They love the accent and I have a rather strong british accent.

US girls are easy to pull and you just go for the fit ones.

Going to the US skiing in April. Cant wait to get out sarging over the pond.
lol thats awesome, i'm going to the US on a gap year...California of all places
 

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l777 - make sure you're in LA as often as possible. they love us english there, and the women are hot! spend most of your time on the sunset strip when you go out sarging, you can't fail to pull.
 

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but mate, you're in miami! the women there are way hotter than in london...
:) Miami is not all that cracked up to be unless you live in the city thats where the HB9s mostly are, I live in the suburbs. A place where I really wanna go is scandinavia, I heard there the girls love italian guys, is this true?.
 

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Im Irish:

I wanna use my accent to pull some US girls in the future! :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not Quite There

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Originally posted by kinesis
I am American, and I can say that I have MUCH better success with British chicks. There's this place in Corfu, Greece called Cavos that I've been to a few times. It's basically a tourist town full of nothing but bars, clubs, and hotels... I could walk up to girls and often have them making out with me in less than 3 minutes. Quite a difference from my experiences here.
LOl

mate, the mediteranean is full of british tourists basically looking for 2 weeks of sun sex and drink.

not to knock your game, but anyone can pull one of those girls within 3 minutes!

but your accent probably will do you a few favours there.

Personally though, i'm not about those package holidays, full of scummy english people. :D
 

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Originally posted by peacock
l777 - make sure you're in LA as often as possible. they love us english there, and the women are hot! spend most of your time on the sunset strip when you go out sarging, you can't fail to pull.
sick, i'm off to the OC, san clemante to be exact; for 10 days in march.

I've been to cali before, so know about the women... I was actually sick of american girls last time I was there, after 4 months of 'oh my god, i love your accent, thats so cool....'

but to be fair, for 10 days, if i'm getting a shagg out of it, i think i can cope. ;) haha

I don't know what it is about american girls, if its the tan, but theyres defintly a higher amount of fit girls than over here.
 

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Does anyone else when theyre over there, do stuff like raise there voice when walking past a group of girls?

Or make any excuse for them to find out your british/irish etc, for instance ask for directions, wheres good to eat etc...

or saying typically posh english phrases such as 'excuse me ladies, could you please tell me where the lavatories are?' hahah, its so fun watching there eyes sparkle wide open.
 

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English women attracted to American Men.

American Women attracted to English Men.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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