"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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being english, i love going to the US as american women absolutely love us english gents! not only that but i find they are far more approachable, friendly etc and generally easy to pull.

english women on the other hand (particularly in london) have the barriers up from the off and very hard work.

anyone else have any further thoughts on this?...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I find english women much easier to pull.

Odd!
 

Tomatoes

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I never fail to pull in the US.....ITS SOO EASY!

They love the accent and I have a rather strong british accent.

US girls are easy to pull and you just go for the fit ones.

Going to the US skiing in April. Cant wait to get out sarging over the pond.
 

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There are lots of threads about how women go for the "new kid in town". This is just that, US chicks can tell you "ain't from around these parts" and go gaga over it.
 

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i find english women easier to pull. more conservative and less superficial than american women.

question: what do english women think about american accents?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GUYS. When you post please put whether you are English Or American.
 

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I am American, and I can say that I have MUCH better success with British chicks. There's this place in Corfu, Greece called Cavos that I've been to a few times. It's basically a tourist town full of nothing but bars, clubs, and hotels... I could walk up to girls and often have them making out with me in less than 3 minutes. Quite a difference from my experiences here.
 

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but mate, you're in miami! the women there are way hotter than in london...
 

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As long as you dudes stick away from Ukranian and Russian women we'll get along just fine :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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L777

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Originally posted by Tomatoes
I never fail to pull in the US.....ITS SOO EASY!

They love the accent and I have a rather strong british accent.

US girls are easy to pull and you just go for the fit ones.

Going to the US skiing in April. Cant wait to get out sarging over the pond.
lol thats awesome, i'm going to the US on a gap year...California of all places
 

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l777 - make sure you're in LA as often as possible. they love us english there, and the women are hot! spend most of your time on the sunset strip when you go out sarging, you can't fail to pull.
 

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Originally posted by peacock
but mate, you're in miami! the women there are way hotter than in london...
:) Miami is not all that cracked up to be unless you live in the city thats where the HB9s mostly are, I live in the suburbs. A place where I really wanna go is scandinavia, I heard there the girls love italian guys, is this true?.
 

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Im Irish:

I wanna use my accent to pull some US girls in the future! :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Not Quite There

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Originally posted by kinesis
I am American, and I can say that I have MUCH better success with British chicks. There's this place in Corfu, Greece called Cavos that I've been to a few times. It's basically a tourist town full of nothing but bars, clubs, and hotels... I could walk up to girls and often have them making out with me in less than 3 minutes. Quite a difference from my experiences here.
LOl

mate, the mediteranean is full of british tourists basically looking for 2 weeks of sun sex and drink.

not to knock your game, but anyone can pull one of those girls within 3 minutes!

but your accent probably will do you a few favours there.

Personally though, i'm not about those package holidays, full of scummy english people. :D
 

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Originally posted by peacock
l777 - make sure you're in LA as often as possible. they love us english there, and the women are hot! spend most of your time on the sunset strip when you go out sarging, you can't fail to pull.
sick, i'm off to the OC, san clemante to be exact; for 10 days in march.

I've been to cali before, so know about the women... I was actually sick of american girls last time I was there, after 4 months of 'oh my god, i love your accent, thats so cool....'

but to be fair, for 10 days, if i'm getting a shagg out of it, i think i can cope. ;) haha

I don't know what it is about american girls, if its the tan, but theyres defintly a higher amount of fit girls than over here.
 

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Does anyone else when theyre over there, do stuff like raise there voice when walking past a group of girls?

Or make any excuse for them to find out your british/irish etc, for instance ask for directions, wheres good to eat etc...

or saying typically posh english phrases such as 'excuse me ladies, could you please tell me where the lavatories are?' hahah, its so fun watching there eyes sparkle wide open.
 

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English women attracted to American Men.

American Women attracted to English Men.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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