"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Engineering Jobs abroad

synergy1

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I applied to a job which I felt was a good fit but it fell through. Suffice it to say, I didn't show up to the interview and didn't steal the show. Its a tough loss to shoulder, but you make your own breaks.

This leaves a pretty broad window of opportunity for me now. I have been contemplating trying to get a temp job within my field overseas for years. The purpose of this thread is to ask a few general questions to those who might have some pointers. Here they are:

1- Will the language barrier prove to be a hindrance? Which countries are better for English speakers to apply too? I speak a little french and would likely pick it up, but do not speak any other languages.

2- What are online resources to submit my CV to for engineering jobs? Non-engineering jobs? If the opportunity is right , its worth consideration even if its outside of my training.

3- Anyone with experience mind telling how their opportunities played out for them? was it worth it? Did they acquire marketable skills in their field? This bullet is important since any time investment should have a return on value , even if its non monetary.

I am a mechanical engineer by training and have worked for a number of years in research, the medical device field, and in business (the failed venture from other posts). My first priority is to get a job within my field, but am willing to explore anything which could be interesting and broaden my horizon. I am thinking of European countries like France, or eastern Europe, but anything interesting/worthwhile will get my attention.

any feedback is welcome. My life has been better than it is now so getting the first step towards the right direction is key.

thanks for listening.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My niece my older brothers daughter married a brain he is an Aerospace engineer by the name of Aksel Bode.

He is also a pilot and whenever I need to fly across country or internationally I call him he is the one on the far right this was when he lived in Florida... http://www.erau.edu/research/strata_pdf/strata_fall2005.pdf

He is also from what I have gathered tops as a math whiz in his country but here was his rank in 97 as he has since moved up in ranks but not sure his standing today http://www.imo-official.com/participant_r.aspx?id=4957

The purpose of sharing this was not to brag about who is in the family but to consider if someone as intelligent as Aksel Bode my nieces husband who came here to America from Albania to land a job at Boeing why go overseas?

Best of luck.

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i have spent the last 12 hours applying to domestic engineering firms; suffice to say I know who the big players are already. At this point I am exploring every option and my gap in knowledge is anything abroad. Who knows if I will ever have this opportunity in my life again, so by my reckoning I figure a little research in the area is called for.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Albania? Uh, not the Eastern Europe we discuss. That is like Africa in Europe. Albanian females are just ugly. Albania is about as bad as it gets in Europe. Just ask the Serbs. Now, Belgrade is a happening town these days.

The Baltics is the place. The thing is that you will not get a good job as a Westerner there. Economies are shot. Great if you have money and end up there. Hell, it is a freaking dream in Riga, Vilnius, or Tallinn right now. If only some of you knew. I have no game, but I do have a passport. The hottest place on earth this summer is Jurmala. Trust me on that.
 

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Maybe this was the reason my nieces husband remained here to live plus when he met my niece a total 10.

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BigJimbo said:
Albania? Uh, not the Eastern Europe we discuss. That is like Africa in Europe. Albanian females are just ugly. Albania is about as bad as it gets in Europe. Just ask the Serbs. Now, Belgrade is a happening town these days.

The Baltics is the place. The thing is that you will not get a good job as a Westerner there. Economies are shot. Great if you have money and end up there. Hell, it is a freaking dream in Riga, Vilnius, or Tallinn right now. If only some of you knew. I have no game, but I do have a passport. The hottest place on earth this summer is Jurmala. Trust me on that.
 
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