"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Engineering Jobs abroad

synergy1

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I applied to a job which I felt was a good fit but it fell through. Suffice it to say, I didn't show up to the interview and didn't steal the show. Its a tough loss to shoulder, but you make your own breaks.

This leaves a pretty broad window of opportunity for me now. I have been contemplating trying to get a temp job within my field overseas for years. The purpose of this thread is to ask a few general questions to those who might have some pointers. Here they are:

1- Will the language barrier prove to be a hindrance? Which countries are better for English speakers to apply too? I speak a little french and would likely pick it up, but do not speak any other languages.

2- What are online resources to submit my CV to for engineering jobs? Non-engineering jobs? If the opportunity is right , its worth consideration even if its outside of my training.

3- Anyone with experience mind telling how their opportunities played out for them? was it worth it? Did they acquire marketable skills in their field? This bullet is important since any time investment should have a return on value , even if its non monetary.

I am a mechanical engineer by training and have worked for a number of years in research, the medical device field, and in business (the failed venture from other posts). My first priority is to get a job within my field, but am willing to explore anything which could be interesting and broaden my horizon. I am thinking of European countries like France, or eastern Europe, but anything interesting/worthwhile will get my attention.

any feedback is welcome. My life has been better than it is now so getting the first step towards the right direction is key.

thanks for listening.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My niece my older brothers daughter married a brain he is an Aerospace engineer by the name of Aksel Bode.

He is also a pilot and whenever I need to fly across country or internationally I call him he is the one on the far right this was when he lived in Florida... http://www.erau.edu/research/strata_pdf/strata_fall2005.pdf

He is also from what I have gathered tops as a math whiz in his country but here was his rank in 97 as he has since moved up in ranks but not sure his standing today http://www.imo-official.com/participant_r.aspx?id=4957

The purpose of sharing this was not to brag about who is in the family but to consider if someone as intelligent as Aksel Bode my nieces husband who came here to America from Albania to land a job at Boeing why go overseas?

Best of luck.

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i have spent the last 12 hours applying to domestic engineering firms; suffice to say I know who the big players are already. At this point I am exploring every option and my gap in knowledge is anything abroad. Who knows if I will ever have this opportunity in my life again, so by my reckoning I figure a little research in the area is called for.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Albania? Uh, not the Eastern Europe we discuss. That is like Africa in Europe. Albanian females are just ugly. Albania is about as bad as it gets in Europe. Just ask the Serbs. Now, Belgrade is a happening town these days.

The Baltics is the place. The thing is that you will not get a good job as a Westerner there. Economies are shot. Great if you have money and end up there. Hell, it is a freaking dream in Riga, Vilnius, or Tallinn right now. If only some of you knew. I have no game, but I do have a passport. The hottest place on earth this summer is Jurmala. Trust me on that.
 

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Maybe this was the reason my nieces husband remained here to live plus when he met my niece a total 10.

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BigJimbo said:
Albania? Uh, not the Eastern Europe we discuss. That is like Africa in Europe. Albanian females are just ugly. Albania is about as bad as it gets in Europe. Just ask the Serbs. Now, Belgrade is a happening town these days.

The Baltics is the place. The thing is that you will not get a good job as a Westerner there. Economies are shot. Great if you have money and end up there. Hell, it is a freaking dream in Riga, Vilnius, or Tallinn right now. If only some of you knew. I have no game, but I do have a passport. The hottest place on earth this summer is Jurmala. Trust me on that.
 
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