"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Endings of Eye Contact

defiancy

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well most of us DJs heard about the eye contact technique and how it works...as well as how to do it. However, i was looking about the results besides (if she looks away from the side: not interested....if she looks down: interested)

Well you can go figure about those signs, but lately I made EC with a girl who seems to be a shy one. In class, I established eye contact when she moved her head toward my face. I engaged and we both exchangedn the EC thing.

AFterwards she broke it by turning her neck to the side and slightly smiling as if at another thing.

By turning her neck on the side..i assumed it was a sign of disinterst..and i would've closed by getting her number , but then a c*ckblocker popped up.

so I'm wondering about the results of Eye contact..both when they're intersted and not interested especially in terms of a shy girl
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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dude it seems u really like this girl - might as well go for it - introduce yourself and set rapport -- go past the EC stage then figure out if shes worth your time.
 

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Originally posted by Bigworm
dude it seems u really like this girl - might as well go for it - introduce yourself and set rapport -- go past the EC stage then figure out if shes worth your time.
yea go figure, but i was ****blocked today..so im going to try again tomorrow
 

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any more comments?
 

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eye contact is the smallest of signals when it comes to showing interest...stop worrying about it and do something. Eye contact alone goes nowhere, its what you do after you establish it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't do it again *lol*. Go walk over and meet her. instead of just looking. you will never get her by just an eye contact. you need action. If she is not interested she will let you know.

Frustrations are common results of eye contact without approach. and your chance to date her will be 1% out of 100%.

its on the DJ bible read it again.
 
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