"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Endings of Eye Contact

defiancy

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well most of us DJs heard about the eye contact technique and how it works...as well as how to do it. However, i was looking about the results besides (if she looks away from the side: not interested....if she looks down: interested)

Well you can go figure about those signs, but lately I made EC with a girl who seems to be a shy one. In class, I established eye contact when she moved her head toward my face. I engaged and we both exchangedn the EC thing.

AFterwards she broke it by turning her neck to the side and slightly smiling as if at another thing.

By turning her neck on the side..i assumed it was a sign of disinterst..and i would've closed by getting her number , but then a c*ckblocker popped up.

so I'm wondering about the results of Eye contact..both when they're intersted and not interested especially in terms of a shy girl
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude it seems u really like this girl - might as well go for it - introduce yourself and set rapport -- go past the EC stage then figure out if shes worth your time.
 

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Originally posted by Bigworm
dude it seems u really like this girl - might as well go for it - introduce yourself and set rapport -- go past the EC stage then figure out if shes worth your time.
yea go figure, but i was ****blocked today..so im going to try again tomorrow
 

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any more comments?
 

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eye contact is the smallest of signals when it comes to showing interest...stop worrying about it and do something. Eye contact alone goes nowhere, its what you do after you establish it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't do it again *lol*. Go walk over and meet her. instead of just looking. you will never get her by just an eye contact. you need action. If she is not interested she will let you know.

Frustrations are common results of eye contact without approach. and your chance to date her will be 1% out of 100%.

its on the DJ bible read it again.
 
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