"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Endings of Eye Contact

defiancy

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well most of us DJs heard about the eye contact technique and how it works...as well as how to do it. However, i was looking about the results besides (if she looks away from the side: not interested....if she looks down: interested)

Well you can go figure about those signs, but lately I made EC with a girl who seems to be a shy one. In class, I established eye contact when she moved her head toward my face. I engaged and we both exchangedn the EC thing.

AFterwards she broke it by turning her neck to the side and slightly smiling as if at another thing.

By turning her neck on the side..i assumed it was a sign of disinterst..and i would've closed by getting her number , but then a c*ckblocker popped up.

so I'm wondering about the results of Eye contact..both when they're intersted and not interested especially in terms of a shy girl
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dude it seems u really like this girl - might as well go for it - introduce yourself and set rapport -- go past the EC stage then figure out if shes worth your time.
 

defiancy

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Originally posted by Bigworm
dude it seems u really like this girl - might as well go for it - introduce yourself and set rapport -- go past the EC stage then figure out if shes worth your time.
yea go figure, but i was ****blocked today..so im going to try again tomorrow
 

defiancy

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any more comments?
 

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eye contact is the smallest of signals when it comes to showing interest...stop worrying about it and do something. Eye contact alone goes nowhere, its what you do after you establish it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't do it again *lol*. Go walk over and meet her. instead of just looking. you will never get her by just an eye contact. you need action. If she is not interested she will let you know.

Frustrations are common results of eye contact without approach. and your chance to date her will be 1% out of 100%.

its on the DJ bible read it again.
 
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