"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ended things with low interest girl, better to fix this pick-up stuff a rest or not

Kal0051

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So ended things with this girl after she started acting really low interest. The only thing is I don't currently have any other options. I don't know whether or not to give this pick-up thing a rest because up til now it's taken a lot of approaches to find 1 girl that will go out with me. And right now I don't have the spare time and finances to go out a lot (school and work takes a lot of time, plus I'm saving up for a 350z). Anyway, just getting opinions on whether to take a rest from women or do anything and everything it takes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HeyPachuco!

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350z, awesome wheels.

My neighbor has one, He's got it kitted up with tints. He's one of those wannabe Triad type of guys, gives me a spin whenever I want. Are you buying from showroom?

And I guess going (No SoSuave) for a few weeks like you said will help dude.
 

Kal0051

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Not buying new, will get one that's a few years old for thousands less. Still a nice car, there's enough around where I'll shop around in the summer, probably drive to Toronto to buy one (car prices are cheaper there than where I am).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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