"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ended things with low interest girl, better to fix this pick-up stuff a rest or not

Kal0051

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So ended things with this girl after she started acting really low interest. The only thing is I don't currently have any other options. I don't know whether or not to give this pick-up thing a rest because up til now it's taken a lot of approaches to find 1 girl that will go out with me. And right now I don't have the spare time and finances to go out a lot (school and work takes a lot of time, plus I'm saving up for a 350z). Anyway, just getting opinions on whether to take a rest from women or do anything and everything it takes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HeyPachuco!

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350z, awesome wheels.

My neighbor has one, He's got it kitted up with tints. He's one of those wannabe Triad type of guys, gives me a spin whenever I want. Are you buying from showroom?

And I guess going (No SoSuave) for a few weeks like you said will help dude.
 

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Not buying new, will get one that's a few years old for thousands less. Still a nice car, there's enough around where I'll shop around in the summer, probably drive to Toronto to buy one (car prices are cheaper there than where I am).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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