"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ended things with low interest girl, better to fix this pick-up stuff a rest or not

Kal0051

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So ended things with this girl after she started acting really low interest. The only thing is I don't currently have any other options. I don't know whether or not to give this pick-up thing a rest because up til now it's taken a lot of approaches to find 1 girl that will go out with me. And right now I don't have the spare time and finances to go out a lot (school and work takes a lot of time, plus I'm saving up for a 350z). Anyway, just getting opinions on whether to take a rest from women or do anything and everything it takes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HeyPachuco!

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350z, awesome wheels.

My neighbor has one, He's got it kitted up with tints. He's one of those wannabe Triad type of guys, gives me a spin whenever I want. Are you buying from showroom?

And I guess going (No SoSuave) for a few weeks like you said will help dude.
 

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Not buying new, will get one that's a few years old for thousands less. Still a nice car, there's enough around where I'll shop around in the summer, probably drive to Toronto to buy one (car prices are cheaper there than where I am).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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