"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ended things with low interest girl, better to fix this pick-up stuff a rest or not

Kal0051

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So ended things with this girl after she started acting really low interest. The only thing is I don't currently have any other options. I don't know whether or not to give this pick-up thing a rest because up til now it's taken a lot of approaches to find 1 girl that will go out with me. And right now I don't have the spare time and finances to go out a lot (school and work takes a lot of time, plus I'm saving up for a 350z). Anyway, just getting opinions on whether to take a rest from women or do anything and everything it takes.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HeyPachuco!

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350z, awesome wheels.

My neighbor has one, He's got it kitted up with tints. He's one of those wannabe Triad type of guys, gives me a spin whenever I want. Are you buying from showroom?

And I guess going (No SoSuave) for a few weeks like you said will help dude.
 

Kal0051

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Not buying new, will get one that's a few years old for thousands less. Still a nice car, there's enough around where I'll shop around in the summer, probably drive to Toronto to buy one (car prices are cheaper there than where I am).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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