Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ended it with my long term FB, for my own good.

MaddXMan

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I've had a long term fb, for the last 3 years. Whenever I want some, she's available, or she's bugging me to get together.

Why break it off? Because I've been spinning 4 plates recently. Met up with my fb for sex last Thursday night, then blew it with one of my plates (the one I liked the most) this weekend.

It's like too much fapping. Getting too much, too regular from my fb puts me out of my focus. Makes me lazy.

So I cut my fb off. She sent me one of her "feeling horny" texts this morning, and I said "I can't see you anymore." She'll guess that I have a girlfriend or something, I don't really care what she thinks.

Feels good because I've been feeling slightly disgusted with myself for continuing to sleep with someone who has no self respect and lets me use her.

From now on it's new puzzy or nothing. I want "normal" not this sleazy stuff I've been doing for a few years.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dominance

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I know exactly what you mean, had a fb for a while and knowing I can just go there and **** her any time definately doesn't motivate me as much. If I didn't have one i'd definately be more motivated to meet new girls.

But it's kind of good when i'm focusing on other things in my life and can get it when I want it.
 

LorenzoVonM

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MaddXMan said:
Feels good because I've been feeling slightly disgusted with myself for continuing to sleep with someone who has no self respect and lets me use her.

From now on it's new puzzy or nothing. I want "normal" not this sleazy stuff I've been doing for a few years.
Thats what a FB relationship is. You come together to fulfill a biological yearning without having emotional entanglements. Don't kid yourself, she was using you too.

Haha normal. What is normal and what is not is only the result of how you've been conditioned.
 

VladPatton

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A text in the morning from a cute chick saying she's horny would motivate me throughout the day like a motherfücker! lol
 
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