"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ended it with my long term FB, for my own good.

MaddXMan

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I've had a long term fb, for the last 3 years. Whenever I want some, she's available, or she's bugging me to get together.

Why break it off? Because I've been spinning 4 plates recently. Met up with my fb for sex last Thursday night, then blew it with one of my plates (the one I liked the most) this weekend.

It's like too much fapping. Getting too much, too regular from my fb puts me out of my focus. Makes me lazy.

So I cut my fb off. She sent me one of her "feeling horny" texts this morning, and I said "I can't see you anymore." She'll guess that I have a girlfriend or something, I don't really care what she thinks.

Feels good because I've been feeling slightly disgusted with myself for continuing to sleep with someone who has no self respect and lets me use her.

From now on it's new puzzy or nothing. I want "normal" not this sleazy stuff I've been doing for a few years.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dominance

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I know exactly what you mean, had a fb for a while and knowing I can just go there and **** her any time definately doesn't motivate me as much. If I didn't have one i'd definately be more motivated to meet new girls.

But it's kind of good when i'm focusing on other things in my life and can get it when I want it.
 

LorenzoVonM

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MaddXMan said:
Feels good because I've been feeling slightly disgusted with myself for continuing to sleep with someone who has no self respect and lets me use her.

From now on it's new puzzy or nothing. I want "normal" not this sleazy stuff I've been doing for a few years.
Thats what a FB relationship is. You come together to fulfill a biological yearning without having emotional entanglements. Don't kid yourself, she was using you too.

Haha normal. What is normal and what is not is only the result of how you've been conditioned.
 

VladPatton

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A text in the morning from a cute chick saying she's horny would motivate me throughout the day like a motherfücker! lol
 
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