"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Frank Zappa

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Guys,

I have a problem with the end game. I'm a good opener, but I'm a shaky closer.

At bars and clubs, I can initiate conversation and get them interested pretty regularly. Then I play indifferent and go somewhere else and then one will make it apparent to one of my buds that she likes me.

I know at this point I should go in full throttle, but for some reason I still play the game of push in and pull back which is very ineffective in social situations where ****blockers and distractions lurk in every corner. I THINK I PSYCHE MYSELF OUT GOING IN FOR THE KILL.

My question is, what do y'all do in the end game at a bar. I mean get her number and try and go home with her are the goals... but what I'm trying to ask is, are there any tips to finishing in her bed every time?

~Zappa
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you want to go straight to bed with a girl, you must meet 2 out of 3 of these criteria:

1. Good looking

2. Rich or good income

3. Tall or athletic
 
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Originally posted by Skullcrusher
If you want to go straight to bed with a girl, you must meet 2 out of 3 of these criteria:

1. Good looking

2. Rich or good income

3. Tall or athletic
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This is the criteria to get a hor and not a woman!!!

Fanky boy, is this a chess game question?

You ask the girl to do something with you in the upcoming future and then you get her number to seal the deal!!

Otherwise, why are you talking to them in the first place??
 
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I'm not sure what you're asking.

Are you having trouble # closing in a bar?

Is your goal to collect phone numbers or is your goal a one night stand?

Your post didn't make that clear.

If your goal is to just get a number, that's easy. Just ask for her number and enter it into your cell and that's it. I find it easiest to do it at the end of the night, or right before I leave. I'll say something like "oh I'm about to leave. It was nice meeting you". [pause] "...by the way, let me get your phone number". It's that simple. If the girl is feelin you and you can tell based on her body language, she'll give it to you the vast majority of the time.

If you want to take her home same night, someone else will have to help you out with that, as I'm not good in that department.
 
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