"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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End Game Help

Frank Zappa

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Guys,

I have a problem with the end game. I'm a good opener, but I'm a shaky closer.

At bars and clubs, I can initiate conversation and get them interested pretty regularly. Then I play indifferent and go somewhere else and then one will make it apparent to one of my buds that she likes me.

I know at this point I should go in full throttle, but for some reason I still play the game of push in and pull back which is very ineffective in social situations where ****blockers and distractions lurk in every corner. I THINK I PSYCHE MYSELF OUT GOING IN FOR THE KILL.

My question is, what do y'all do in the end game at a bar. I mean get her number and try and go home with her are the goals... but what I'm trying to ask is, are there any tips to finishing in her bed every time?

~Zappa
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you want to go straight to bed with a girl, you must meet 2 out of 3 of these criteria:

1. Good looking

2. Rich or good income

3. Tall or athletic
 
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Originally posted by Skullcrusher
If you want to go straight to bed with a girl, you must meet 2 out of 3 of these criteria:

1. Good looking

2. Rich or good income

3. Tall or athletic
This is the criteria to get a hor and not a woman!!!

Fanky boy, is this a chess game question?

You ask the girl to do something with you in the upcoming future and then you get her number to seal the deal!!

Otherwise, why are you talking to them in the first place??
 

So Many Ways

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I'm not sure what you're asking.

Are you having trouble # closing in a bar?

Is your goal to collect phone numbers or is your goal a one night stand?

Your post didn't make that clear.

If your goal is to just get a number, that's easy. Just ask for her number and enter it into your cell and that's it. I find it easiest to do it at the end of the night, or right before I leave. I'll say something like "oh I'm about to leave. It was nice meeting you". [pause] "...by the way, let me get your phone number". It's that simple. If the girl is feelin you and you can tell based on her body language, she'll give it to you the vast majority of the time.

If you want to take her home same night, someone else will have to help you out with that, as I'm not good in that department.
 
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