"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Encounter with the hottest girl, and i messed up

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Irs88

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At a party last night. Was waiting in the bathroom line and this hot HB9 comes and waits right behind me. I just finished talking to the HB 6-7 infront of me in line and started talking with no hesitation with the HB9.

It went GREAT. I think the person infront me of was taking a **** or something, but I talked to her for 10 minutes straight. I kinoed her shoulder couple of times, got her laughing, AND connecting with her many times. she even asked what my name is.(big IOI). I went in the bathroom and when I came out, I said it was nice chatting with you, gave a small hug and just LEFT. Didn't see her for rest of the party. I am SO MAD AT MYSELF. she was the hottest chick that ever seemed to be interested in me. I started panic-ing and jsut hoped I would run into her later that night. I didn't. I ended up going to another party and talked to some HB 6-7 and hung out with my crew of friends.

Why didn't I ask her number, WHY CANT I REMEMBER HER NAME(so i can facebook her). goddam. she was SO hot and we had so many things in commen.

FAILL
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That's one reason you should never hesitate to get her info. You had nothing to lose by asking. At least then you wouldn't be beating yourself up over it. Sorry man.
 
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I've had this situation happen on occasion. I would also beat myself over the head afterwards.

Last time I was waiting for an appointment, a girl from back in the day that gave me IOI's (and i was too chicken to act) ended up showing up out of the blue.

we chatted, connected, i got more IOI's. I was called in first, and I thought WTF what if she left. The whole time I was with the DOC i was just trying to get out of there before she was called in by a different DOC.

I get out, she is still there, i have a seat, we chit-chat for about a minute. i then say, "I gotta run, but let me get your number and i'll hit you up sometime." that wasn't true but i had to get it before she was called in. i got it.

we never connected, but that is another story. point is i got the digits.
 
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