"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Encounter with the hottest girl, and i messed up

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Irs88

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At a party last night. Was waiting in the bathroom line and this hot HB9 comes and waits right behind me. I just finished talking to the HB 6-7 infront of me in line and started talking with no hesitation with the HB9.

It went GREAT. I think the person infront me of was taking a **** or something, but I talked to her for 10 minutes straight. I kinoed her shoulder couple of times, got her laughing, AND connecting with her many times. she even asked what my name is.(big IOI). I went in the bathroom and when I came out, I said it was nice chatting with you, gave a small hug and just LEFT. Didn't see her for rest of the party. I am SO MAD AT MYSELF. she was the hottest chick that ever seemed to be interested in me. I started panic-ing and jsut hoped I would run into her later that night. I didn't. I ended up going to another party and talked to some HB 6-7 and hung out with my crew of friends.

Why didn't I ask her number, WHY CANT I REMEMBER HER NAME(so i can facebook her). goddam. she was SO hot and we had so many things in commen.

FAILL
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That's one reason you should never hesitate to get her info. You had nothing to lose by asking. At least then you wouldn't be beating yourself up over it. Sorry man.
 
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I've had this situation happen on occasion. I would also beat myself over the head afterwards.

Last time I was waiting for an appointment, a girl from back in the day that gave me IOI's (and i was too chicken to act) ended up showing up out of the blue.

we chatted, connected, i got more IOI's. I was called in first, and I thought WTF what if she left. The whole time I was with the DOC i was just trying to get out of there before she was called in by a different DOC.

I get out, she is still there, i have a seat, we chit-chat for about a minute. i then say, "I gotta run, but let me get your number and i'll hit you up sometime." that wasn't true but i had to get it before she was called in. i got it.

we never connected, but that is another story. point is i got the digits.
 
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